The Undoing Society

The Retreat

A chance to undo.

Most of us have spent years learning who we’re supposed to be. What we should want. How we should look. What makes us successful. What makes us enough.

But what if some of those expectations were never ours to begin with?

We’re creating a space for women to step away from everyday life, question what they’ve been taught, and reconnect with what actually matters to them.

Five nights of real conversations, time to relax, zen yoga, sound baths, meals from a private chef, laughter, connection, and room to figure out what you’re ready to let go of.

So pull up a chair. We’d love for you to join our table.

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The Experience

Undoing

Guided teaching and coaching to uncover the patterns, beliefs, and protective walls that keep us disconnected from ourselves and others. Make space for awareness, authenticity, and a different way forward.

Zen Yoga

Slow, grounding yoga to help you breathe, settle in, and get out of your head.

Sound Bath

Lie back, close your eyes, and let sound do the work while your body and mind rest.

Real Conversations

Question old beliefs and explore what you’re ready to undo.

Room to Breathe

Free time to swim, explore, rest, or do absolutely nothing.

A Private Chef

Fresh, beautiful meals made for you. No planning, no cooking, no dishes.

Connection & Laughter

Long dinners, new friendships, and evenings together.

You don’t have to arrive knowing what you want to change. You don’t have to share anything you’re not comfortable sharing. And you certainly don’t have to leave as a completely different person.

You just get to be you.

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About Us

We weren’t meant to spend our lives becoming who everyone else expects us to be.

Somewhere along the way, we learn the rules.

Don’t be too much. Don’t take up too much space. Put everyone else first. Look like you have it all handled. Never let them see you struggle.

And we get so good at following those rules that we rarely stop to ask ourselves where they came from, or whether we even believe in them.

We’re Jodie and Crystal.

And through our own experiences, we’ve come to understand how much of our lives can be shaped by expectations we never consciously chose.

We’ve learned that undoing isn’t about tearing your life apart or becoming someone completely different.

It’s about getting curious.

About questioning the stories you’ve told yourself for years. Recognizing the patterns you’ve fallen into. Understanding why you do what you do, and realizing you have permission to choose differently.

And sometimes, it’s about accepting parts of yourself you’ve spent years trying to change.

We created The Undoing Society because we believe women need more spaces where they can question everything without being told who they should become next.

A place for honest conversations. Different perspectives. Connection. Laughter. And the freedom to be exactly where you are.

We’re not here to tell you how to live your life.

We’re here to create the space for you to discover what feels true to you.

Because maybe the most important work you’ll ever do isn’t becoming someone new. It’s undoing everything that made you believe you weren’t enough as you are.

Jodie & Crystal

Jodie Borg

Certified Master Coach · Certified Integrated Attachment Theory Coach · Personal Development Coach

Jodie is a Certified Master Coach and Certified Integrated Attachment Theory Coach with a passion for understanding human behavior, relationships, and the beliefs and patterns that shape how we experience ourselves and the world around us.

She believes personal growth begins with curiosity: questioning the expectations we’ve learned to live by, recognizing patterns that no longer serve us, and discovering who we are beyond the roles and identities we’ve taken on throughout our lives.

Drawing from her background in attachment theory, relationship dynamics, and personal development, Jodie helps women better understand themselves, recognize how past experiences influence their present lives, and create space for greater self-awareness, confidence, and authentic connection.

She believes growth isn’t about constantly striving to become someone better or trying to fix what’s wrong. It’s about learning to trust yourself, letting go of the need to meet everyone else’s expectations, and realizing you have the freedom to create a life that genuinely feels like your own.

For Jodie, the most meaningful transformation happens when we stop living according to who we think we should be and start embracing who we actually are.

Crystal Hansen

Personal Transformation Facilitator · Holistic Practitioner · Sound Healer

Crystal is a Certified Life and Marriage Master Coach with Advanced Certification in Relationship and Marriage Coaching. She is passionate about helping women reconnect with themselves through personal transformation, self-discovery, and what she calls the undoing.

She believes transformation isn’t always about becoming more, but about releasing the expectations, conditioning, protective patterns, and stories we’ve accumulated along the way.

Drawing from her background in relationship and personal development, along with holistic practices including foot and face zoning and sound healing, Crystal creates experiences that invite deeper self-awareness, restoration, and reconnection.

She believes we aren’t broken and don’t need to be fixed. Sometimes we simply need to undo what was never truly ours to carry so we can come home to ourselves.

FAQs

Questions you might have

What exactly is The Undoing Society retreat?

It’s a five-night experience designed to give women space to step away from everyday expectations, question old beliefs, connect with other women, and explore what they may be ready to let go of. Think meaningful conversations, zen yoga, sound baths, meals from a private chef, relaxation, laughter, and plenty of time to simply enjoy yourself.

Do I need to be going through something difficult to attend?

Not at all. You don’t have to be at a crossroads or feel like something is wrong with your life. You might simply be curious about yourself, ready for a different perspective, or wanting time that’s entirely your own.

Can I come alone?

Absolutely. You don’t need to bring a friend or know anyone beforehand. We’re creating an experience where coming alone feels just as welcoming as coming with someone you know.

What if I don’t feel comfortable sharing personal things?

You never have to share anything you don’t want to. There will be opportunities for reflection and conversation, but you decide how much you participate and what feels right for you.

Is this a therapy retreat?

No. This is a personal growth and connection retreat, not therapy or mental health treatment. We’ll explore beliefs, patterns, and expectations through guided conversations and experiences, but you won’t be expected to process trauma or disclose personal experiences.

Where will the retreat take place?

At a beachfront villa on a quiet bay in Mexico’s Riviera Maya, between Akumal and Tulum, March 7–12, 2027. See the villa.

How much will it cost?

A shared room is $3,500 and a private room is $7,000. You can pay in full, or hold your spot with a $500 non-refundable deposit and pay the rest in 2 monthly payments. See pricing and reserve.

What’s included in the retreat?

Five nights’ accommodation, all meals by a private chef, daily zen yoga, sound baths, and Undoing sessions with Jodie and Crystal. Flights, airport transfers, and travel insurance aren’t included.

Will there be free time?

Yes! We want this to feel like a getaway, not another schedule you have to keep up with. There will be structured experiences and plenty of time to rest, explore, swim, or do absolutely nothing.

What if I don’t know what I need to undo?

That’s okay. You don’t need to arrive with a problem to solve or a list of things you want to change. Sometimes we don’t even recognize the expectations or beliefs we’ve been carrying until we have the space to question them. That’s part of what this experience is about.

What happens when I join the list for future retreats?

You’ll get updates about the retreat and future retreats, and you can share your preferences so we can shape the experience around what women actually want. Joining the list doesn’t commit you to booking. Ready now? Reserve your spot.

Your invitation to undo.

March 7–12, 2027 in the Riviera Maya, Mexico. Reserve your spot, or join the list to hear about future retreats.

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